Would you like to
escape this endless cycle of resolution followed by remorse? Hypnosis
can definitely help. And you can make your resolution to change anytime 365
days a year. Just resolve to call 508-336-4242 or 401-374-1890 to schedule your first
hypnotherapy session.
But in the meantime, there are some
things you can do on your own. These
five simple steps that definitely improve your chances of success. We can
boost them with hypnotic programming. But these proven strategies help
people make important personal changes from smoking cessation and weight
loss to dozens of specific, individual issues. If you make a firm commitment
to follow them to the best of your ability, I promise your New Year’s
Resolutions have a good chance of becoming your next year’s reality whether
you become a client or not.
STEP ONE – Get serious.
Begin by looking carefully at your values and the challenges you’ll face in
the coming year. Know what you really want before you declare you will spend
the next year achieving it. To be successful your resolutions must reflect
your true desires not someone else’s wishes for you. People who say, "My
husband or wife wants me to quit smoking/overeating/or whatever so I’ll make
that my New Year’s Resolution." are usually disappointed. They and their
loved ones are left with feelings of failure.
Most Popular New Year’s Resolutions*
Exercise regularly:
37%
Work harder or smarter: 23%
Eat a healthy diet:
13%
Stop or reduce smoking,
drinking, caffeine or
the use of other drugs: 7%
All others:
20%
*Source: University of Washington Psychology Department
STEP
TWO – Keep your goals reasonable, specific and challenging. Avoid general
statements like "I will lose weight in the next twelve months." It is far
more motivating to set a specific date and weight target. Another trap to
avoid is trying to be too ambitious. It may sound wonderful to resolve to
regain the waist size you had when you were on the high school soccer team,
but is it realistic given that you are approaching your 25th class reunion?
Probably not. The problem with this type of resolution is they are really
nothing more than empty pipe dreams. It is clear from the start that you
never intend to achieve the superhuman goals you set. This makes it easy to
decide to not even bother to try.
STEP THREE - Plan a
strategy. Decide how you are going to support the change you want and begin
to establish short-term objectives. The clearer you are about how you intend
to carry out your resolution, the better your chance of success. Include a
way to keep your resolutions on the top of your mind throughout the year.
You won’t turn your New Year’s Resolutions into realities if you can’t
remember them. We all live one day at a time, sometimes an hour at a time,
sometimes a minute at a time. And a year is far too long to wait before
revisiting your annual objectives. Commit to look at your resolutions once
each day and you’ll stand a much better chance of achieving them.
STEP FOUR – Go public.
Share your resolutions with at least one other person. Once your resolutions
are out in the open they assume a life of their own. People expect you to
take action or at least watch how well you do. Breaking a promise to a
spouse or friend is more difficult than breaking a secret commitment to
ourselves. Naturally, going public adds a greater risk of being sabotaged by
the negative thinkers in your life. But there is also a chance you might
find a committed partner or coach to keep you moving forward.
STEP FIVE - Start
developing your New Year’s Resolution and its implementation plan today.
Don’t wait till 11:59 PM on December 31st. People who wait till New Year’s
Eve party to make their resolutions usually don’t keep them very long.
Here
are a few questions you should consider
before committing to any New year's Resolution.
1. Are your
resolutions realistic for you?
2. Do your resolutions
reflect your true values?
3. Are your goals
specific and measurable?
4. Do you have 3 or
fewer major resolutions (a few
strong ones are better than many "nice ideas")?
5. Do you have a plan
to achieve your resolutions?
6. Are you prepared to
"go public" and ask to be
held accountable for your resolutions?
7. Are you prepared to
revisit your resolutions just about
everyday in the coming year to make sure you
achieve your goals?
Hypnosis
can help you
increase your chance of success
If you would like to significantly
increase your chances of success, why not try hypnosis for a change? With
hypnosis you can literally re-program your mind to achieve the results you
desire. You will also have a free audio recording of the session to listen
to year long for reinforcement to keep your resolution and intention alive.
Hypnosis Scheduling Instructions
To schedule
your first hypnosis appointment or arrange a free 15-20 minute consultation to
see whether hypnosis is right for you, click the new client intake form link: New Hypnosis Client Intake Form